Thursday, February 28, 2008

Life is Like a Box of Goldfish

Another week gone.. hurray in the sense that I can finally ease up the tension on my work. I must still work, but with more ease. I have been very busy.. especially in the last few days. I tried to spend my weekend well and for the most part, I did. Yet, when I was supposed to be doing homework, I found myself enjoying the world of England instead.

For instance, Saturday night I was planning to work, work, work. But then my roommate and a friend said they were going to an orchestra concert. How could I say no to that? It was an excellent performance; it was one of the college's orchestras. I loved it. It was packed and I had to stand, but that was alright.

Then on Sunday, I was invited to go on a walk with some people from my building, including my junior dean who is a grad student. We walked a very long way, but it was beautiful. We followed a road that lead to a meadow. We crossed the meadow, where horses were grazing, walked over a bridge on the Thames, and found ourselves on a path next to the river. We walked north for quite some time and then we hit a small road. Next to the road was a foot path and we followed it to a village. The houses had thatched roofs and the buildings were like something out of an old novel. In fact, the whole adventure was. It felt like some woman in Victorian clothing would all of a sudden pop out and speak about Mr Darcy.. or something like that. The whole trip took four and a half hours. I didn't bring my camera, but my friend did and I will post them as soon as I get them from her.

Anyway, ever since then I have been doing homework. Today in tutorial, my tutor dismissed me after barely 20 minutes and said we would make up the time during ninth week. I was supposed to be done next week (8th) and I'm a little disappointed. Oh well... I did pay money to get this education and I don't think I have to prepare an essay.. so it shouldn't be that bad. All this work is stressful and it feels like it will never end. Last night, while trying to complete my essay, I found myself staring at the goldfish box I had brought from home. I read about goal setting and felt encouraged by my fishy friends. Then I laughed at the point of the maze: Help Finn... so he can play with his friends! I am totally Finn right now! See the books at the bottom of the maze? Those are just a few of the books I need to read and sort through before the end of term. And I need to focus on that and not my friends... which will be hard since most of my friends are done with their research papers. Oh well. I am sure that I will make it through the maze! And when I'm done... I can be with my friends and my two guests from America!! Wooo!

Things I have learned (or that just refreshed my memory):
I love orchestras and the sound of stringed instruments
Procrastinating is just not a good option... yet I should take opportunities to embrace England
I am almost done and can do this!

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Is it half over or is there still half to complete?

Hello again! I know, it's been far too long since I last posted. Homework gets me all the time! Right now I should be doing homework, but I have too much energy and wanted to post my enthusiasm somewhere...

On Thursday, I waited and waited for my tutor to show up at class. He never came, so it got rescheduled for this morning. He cut into my Saturday! But it was actually quite nice. He interrupted our session for many stories about Rome, Europe, and America. It was so much fun. Then he told me, "Your writing is" (small pause and in a quiet voice) "American" (resume regular voice) "but the thought behind it is really good." That pretty much made my day. I know it is somewhat insulting to the American name, but I honestly don't mind. American English and English differ and I think that is my favorite part about being here. I try to improve, though, by changing the dictionary in Microsoft word to the UK dictionary.

(To the left: Sunset and moon out of the window in the hallway by my room)

I only have two weeks left of regular classes, then a month of integral lectures and field trips. I'm super excited. Plus, all my professors have been really nice and are teaching me so much. I have a lot to do in these last two weeks, but I want to give everything my all, no matter how hard it is, and just experience Oxford life. It was so crazy in class today because I had a hard time writing my last paper, and he loved it. That is a good feeling. We talked about grades. I didn't tell him this, though I should have, but I am not here for a grade. I could honestly care less. Believe it or not, I enjoy writing these papers. I love the books, especially the last one I read, Metamorphoses by Ovid. I enjoy going to the Bodlian Library and feeling special because the tourists stand outside and I get to go inside. But I also enjoy my free time, and less classes means more of that.

I am just in a really good mood today. Maybe it was nine hours of sleep. Maybe it was the 5,6,7,8 cups of coffee at breakfast. Maybe it was the tutorial. Maybe it is just me. I am also very excited because Jonathan is coming in less than three weeks and when he leaves, my mom will be here and so I have two weeks of being a tour guide and exploring more of England!

Sometimes I go walking or running just so I can think. And sometimes I just smile and think, "I can't believe I am actually here. I can't believe I'm in England. I can't believe I'm studying at Oxford. This is crazy. I am actually doing it." I was so scared to come and now I'm just so happy. 52 days have past, and I have 49 left. I still have so much to do and even more to learn!

(To the right: The bulletin board by our junior dean's door. He puts on all these funny little pictures/comics. My second favorites is the cover of Star Wars Episode II, but instead of the actors, it is people from the American government and the title is "The Clone of the War." A little mean, but funny. This is my favorite. It's Mary and says "Abstinence is 100%" (which is crossed out and next to it says) "99.9999% effective." It makes me laugh.)

Things I have learned (or that just refreshed my memory):
I love to run
To make tutors laugh, just add in an Americanized word
Sometimes, the best cure for a writer's block is a good time with friends... and kicking over the coffee table and spilling your water is not a good way to handle stress... but it does make you laugh, no matter how upset you are
Good moods are better than bad... so just get over yourself and SMILE :)

Sunday, February 10, 2008

A Wale of an Adventure

Every once in a while, a good student needs to cast the books aside and take a train to Wales... hey, it worked for me!

I awoke Saturday morning at 4:53. I actually didn't hear my alarm go off, my poor roommate had to turn it off and then wake me up. Anyway, a half hour later, I found eight groggy people and the nine of us walked to the train station. It was freezing on all our trains and buses, however, we made it safely to Cardiff, Wales by 9:30 that morning. While still tired and cold, we walked a few blocks through the town. The first thing we noticed was that many people were wearing kilts and the color red. We learned that there was a rugby match that day, Wales vs. Scotland and so the whole town and country was in Cardiff for the match. These colorful folks were terribly friendly, and that's when I knew I would love Wales.

(To the left: Cardiff Castle)



The first thing we did was tour the Cardiff Castle. The castle is beautiful and has an array of many different types of rooms, ranging from medieval to Victorian to Georgian. The castle was built on a Roman fort and housed many of British royalty.. In fact, it was lived in until about the 1930's! After our tour, we wandered about the grounds and got to climb the keep and view the city; it was beautiful. We saw owls and falcons that were kept tethered during the day; it turns out these birds are released into the castle, and other historic buildings, every few days to catch rodents and insects that would destroy these historic sites. (Below: the keep)





After our castle experience, we decided it was time to eat. The streets were crowded with Welsh and Scots, who were also trying to eat before the match. We wanted to eat at a nice, Welsh restaurant, unfortunately, there was a long wait and we were starving and needed cheap food. The best thing we found was a Pizza Hut; now do not judge.. Pizza Huts are very different in the UK. Besides delicious pizza, we ate amazing appetizers and deserts.. for really cheap too! We were more than full and had leftovers for the rest of the afternoon!

When we walked outside, we saw four police horses escorting a car. The woman in the car waved to us. Now I had no idea who she was, but immediately after she passed, my good friend (who is a Historian and very wise when it comes to British culture), Sean, started to freak out: "Oh my gosh, that was Princess Anne! And the Duke of Essex was behind her!" It was really exciting to see such noble people, and even more that she waved at us American tourists. After we got over the fact that we had seen royalty, we walked around the downtown area and shopped. Stuff is cheaper in Wales and we all gave into the temptation to buy.

(Below: The City Hall of Cardiff and the Museum of Wales)

We then walked to the Museum of Wales. It was not a bad museum, but was the low point of our trip. I loved the exhibits, but they were not unique to Wales. Plus, tiredness set in as our feet ache and our bodies yearned for caffeine.

Once we satisfied our cravings, we decided to go to the Bay, which was two miles away. We attempted to find a bus, but one of us was impatient and just started to walk towards another stop. We didn't get a chance to look at the map long enough; although we were going in the right direction, we couldn't find another stop. She asked another driver how to get to the Bay and where a stop was, but this driver was not a local driver and only knew how to get to the Bay. He had an hour before he had to bring his group back, so he generously brought us to the bay for free. We tried to offer him money, but he would not take it.
(Above: The bay at sunset; Below: Lighted columns that changed colors and the tall fountain)

The bay was beautiful, and we reached there right after sunset. There were beautiful fountains, and I enjoyed the look of salt water and the lights reflecting on the shimmering surface. It was time to eat dinner, but our group was indecisive. Nobody wanted to eat at the Bay; either nothing was "Welsh" enough or they didn't want to spend money. They looked at the tour books for ideas, and decided to go back to the Centre of the City (aka downtown). Now, I knew it would be crowded because of the rugby game, which Wales won, but they wanted to see the crowds.

We caught a regular city bus back up and when we arrived, the streets were packed. There were lines down the street for every restaurant and pub. Almost everyone was wasted, and there was alcohol and garbage all over the streets. Half of our group freaked because they were worried about catching our train. The lines to get into the station were very long and we didn't know how long it would take to get in. Nobody could decide on a restaurant, and so a few people went to McDonalds; I did not. Then we went back to the station to stand in line. I hadn't eaten and wanted to and we still had two hours before the last train left. Five of us left the other four at te station; we planned to just meet them there a little later for the ride home. I just ate at a local fish and chips place, which was delicious and cheap.

(To the right: Our crazy train ride!)

We got back to the station and could not find our friends. We somewhat worried, but figured they left us. We attempted to get on a train, but it was really crowded and we wanted to sit together because the ride was over an hour. Although the workers wanted us to board, we waited only a few seconds for another train and got on. We sat next to Welsh, English, and Scottish people, most of which were drunk. They loved that we were from America and the Scotsmen really loved my name, probably because in old English, it is a boy's name. I ended up sitting next to a 24-year old from Bristol. His name was Tom and his parents sat in front of us. Everyone was, if you remember from before, very friendly. They talked to us for a long time and then started to tell jokes. They started to chant my name, telling me to say a joke. I couldn't really think of a good joke, so I told the "muffin" joke. If you don't know it, just ask me; it is pretty lame. But they loved it because it was American and kept asking for more. I said some dumb blonde ones, and they recorded it on their cell phones and took pictures. We then took pictures as well. Then they sang a Welsh rugby song, which was very cool. They wanted us to sing, and so they started to sing our national anthem and we joined in. It was so much fun! Tom's parents then invited the five of us to a pub in Bristol. We had to catch a connecting train an hour after our arrival, and so they then invited us to stay at their house. We could not do that and so we could not go to the pub because they went in a taxi. We still had fun though. (To the left: A true Scotsman)

We walked around Bristol singing and laughing because of our fun train ride. Then a man walked up to us and asked me if I had a light. None of my friends smoke, so after we said no, we just kept on walking. He yelled "Wait, Wait!" And asked if he could take a picture with us. We let him, and then three of his friends came and we took pictures with them. We talked about soccer, which they called soccer and I decided is my favorite word to say with a British accent. We then looked at St. Mary's Cathedral (to the right) and headed back to the station. We got on the train about 20 minutes before its departure. We talked for a long time, and then realized it was 5 minutes past the departure time. There was an announcement that the train was delayed because it needed a driver. About ten minutes later, there was another announcement and we couldn't hear it. Then a man from the company stepped in our car and told us the train had been canceled. This was not good for us, because we were supposed to take this train to another station where we would take a bus to another station where we would catch another bus to Oxford. He told us to go to another Platform and when we arrived at the one he suggested, we found out the train was going to Cardiff. We loved Wales, but needed to go to Oxford. Luckily, there were workers working at an information booth. We told them where we were going, and we knew it was quite a long way (74 miles). After about five minutes, one of the workers took our tickets and gave us a sheet of paper. He told us to bring it to the front of the station and find a large enough taxi for five people. We got a free ride from Bristol to Oxford in a nice, big taxi! We listened to reggae and hip/hop and danced as we flew down the wrong side of the street. We finally reached the Oxford station, which was difficult since our driver didn't know where it was and we had to stop so he could put it in the GPS system. We walked back home, still very excited from our amazing journey.

Although I was wound up, I was still tired. I crashed about an hour later and got a nice eight hours of sleep. Today, I must do homework... which is not the ideal thing to be doing after one has spent an amazing day in Wales :)

Things I have learned (or that just refreshed my memory):
I can post pictures!
Welsh (and Scottish and southern England) people are very friendly and fun and just so wonderful!
Although they love the metric system, the UK measures distance in miles
I want to, and will go to, a rugby match
I LOVE WALES!!!

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Another Week

(To the left: My friends at the club)

I finish classes on Thursdays at 10.. so the weekend has begun! Yet, I realize I never spoke of what I did last weekend, so I will tell you now.

On Friday night, we went to a club called "Filth" but despite its name, it was a good club. We had to go early to get free entrance, and so we were the only ones dancing for the first hour. That was fun for us! And probably terribly funny for everyone who watched! On Saturday, we visited Christ Church, a beautiful and famous college and cathedral. What is most exciting about it for me is that the stairs by the dining hall is where parts of Harry Potter (1 & 2) were filmed! Pretty exciting! And the dining hall looks like Hogwarts, but has only three tables. The hall is famous because of its connections with Alice's Adventure in Wonderland, by Lewis Carroll. It was a pretty place, but crowded so we are going to go back on a less touristy day. (To the right: Christ Church)
(Above: The stair case used in Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (aka the Philosopher's Stone; Below: The Great Hall)
The rest of my week has been spent reading, writing, and preparing for our trip to Wales. I tried to buy train tickets online, but it would not let me because my address is outside the UK. Today, we went to the train station and my debit card wouldn't work because stupid Wells Fargo canceled it because they thought it was stolen. I really don't like that bank. So I had to charge them and my very wonderful father called the bank. Hopefully my card will be reactivated before this weekend.

Well... I must devote the rest of my day to homework.. what else is new?

What I have learned (or that just refreshed my memory):
I miss my family
I miss my friends
And last, but not least, I miss my Jonathan

Friday, February 1, 2008

February?

(To the left: Kristen, me, and Rashelle wearing our new clothes at the theatre)

How did February get here so fast??

Last Friday night a group of friends and I went to a play, "The Rivals." It was a comedy written in the eighteenth century. It was really good. At first, it was hard to understand because they spoke really fast and in high pitched voices. It was a fun experience. Although it wasn't necessary, we all dressed up in new outfits that we had just bought that day :) I'm not a big shopper, so surprisingly, I have bought a few shirts, nice pants, shoes, souvenirs, and a dress! I probably won't be spending that much more.

This week was once again filled with homework! I try to spread it out, but no matter how much I work, I always have so much Tuesdays and Wednesdays.

This week my friends and I have also been planning weekend trips! It's pretty exciting. We're going to Wales next weekend!

Things I have learned (or that just refreshed my memory):
All work and no play is how an Oxford student gets passing grades
I have no idea how to do philosophy, although it's my minor
The British either love Americans or hate them... mostly they hate them..